There is no maybe.

Commit to stuff that matters and stay committed.  Like never before it seems that people are unwilling to commit to things of actual importance.  They go absolutely nuts over their favorite sports team or band, investing ludicrous amounts of resources into proclaiming ultimate devotion; but rarely are they willing to commit to things outside the areas of their frivolous passions.

I see this as a result of our society’s constant shift to pander to our every whim and want, and it’s not a good thing.  Facebook brought this to light for everyone with the infamous “maybe” option on event attendance; but people want options.  They don’t want to be locked in to doing something that they may change their mind about at the last minute.  They might be feeling a bit lazier the day the event arrives than the day that they agreed to participate in it.  Even if they do actually say that they’ll do something, which used to mean committing to do it, there’s no real guarantee that they’ll actually do it.  Often as not, when the moment arrives the fickle nature will kick in and commitment is broken.

I’m not saying we should be quick to jump into things.  It is always prudent to use good wisdom and judgment when committing to something.  However, once commitment is made shouldn’t that mean something to us?

More and more I see a society afraid to; commit responsibly, follow through unconditionally, or accept the outcome of their choices.

There is only yes or no.  There is no maybe.